How can I be seen as an Adult to women?

Well, try speaking slower when you talk, for one thing. Your run-on writing tendencies must also appear in your speech. At some point, perhaps age 40, your family trait of looking young will enable you to accomplish more than most people, who wish they had the problem of appearing young. Getting back to being respected by the women, have you ever considered that the very front you are putting on at work is why you are being treated as a kid? Prof. John Kitchin, psychology, nz9f.com