Is love not meant for some people?

hi im 16, i was jus wonderin if anyone could tell me , lke a nice genuine guy that is respectful to girls, i clean neat and tidy, yet i can neva get a break, i have nearly zero confidence, and yet i see guys that traet girls like crap an chat on them all the time can get girlfriends with ease its against everything that my parents have, tought me, seriosuly do i have to be a to get a girlfriend