Heartache vs depression?

depression and heartache feel the same, because with both u aren't able to move on in life. u need to cut all ties with her, don't talk to her anymore, because when u do it just brings it all back up. and next time choose a little bit wiser, get to know a woman's past. any woman who doesn't have her children with her is a bad bet. because the court system never takes a child away from the mother unless the mom is unfit. what u need to do is go out on some dates, and stop thinking of the other girl who left. maybe go to the doctor;s and get some antidepressants so u can feel better. join a self help therapy group dealing with breakups, when Your hurting it always helps to have others u can talk to who would help u through this. focus on the good things u have, the job, and just put yourself back out there. don't let what happened destroy your future and make u depressed. things happen for a reason and maybe this girl would have ruined your life had she stayed with u.