How to treat a guy right?

(Before I start this I want to say I'm 13 going to be 14 in march 2011) I try to have a good sense of humor about thing and fit in with guys yet still be a girl. I know guys aren't blind so like if I had a boyfriend and I noticed him checking out a hot girl I would be calm about it. I try to dress cute like not t old fashion and covering everything up, yet not real sluttish. I don't mind getting a guy stuff or like making him a snack (I actually enjoy cooking/baking) but I don't want to be treated like I'm his maid/waitress. I keep my self clean and stuff (I hate smelling bad) and shaved ever where (Except my head of course, my hair is like shoulder length) (I hate feeling hairy). I'm still a virgin so I don't mind kissing and stuff but I don't want to go far fast. My friend say I'm a flirt, but I don't mean to be, that's just how I am. Bu if I do flirt I would never cheat. I would probably give a guy a second chance if he cheated on me (Depending how far he went and how much I cared for him). I like to snuggle and relax and listen to music and nice stuff like that yet I love to be outside, too. I don't really play sort but I'm always open to try new things. I love all animals, but horses are my favorite, I also love music and can listen to about every thing. I want a guy to respect me, I'm not a defenseless girl but still, doesn’t mean you need to pick on me. So what are some tips to be a good girlfriend? And what are some things to keep in mind?